My elder sister is somebody you do not want to piss. She is hot-headed and makes good decision really fast. When I was younger, I always try to do her requests because I was afraid that she would scold me if I didn't do any of them right. Also, when she was younger and was studying in schools, I would always be wary to go into her room because she would be busy and yell at us, my sister and me, to get out. The most scariest is waking her up because she gets all grumpy. Even the maid is afraid of that.
But she can be very nice. Sometimes I would treat her like my mother because my real mother was always scolding me. Of course, my elder sister scolds me but she would always say things that are often nicer than my mother. And she makes more sense than her as well. Also, she always get food or toys for me too.
As we get older, she is always helping my mother out with the letters from banks. She also is very independent and my parents hold her in high regard because of her capabilities. I, too, hold her in high regard. So, basically, the whole family kind of depends on her and even sometimes my mother, being the head instead of my father, listens to what she says. If I were to say who has the biggest influence on me in the family, I would go with my elder sister.
She also offers me advice and cheers me up when I was depressed. There was a period when she was married and I kept everything to myself. Maybe it was a coincidence? My younger sis complained that I don't tell her stuff. Well, I don't have the habit to do so because she used to be so young and saw things in a different, childish, light so she can't really blame me.
Despite her independent demeanor, she is always my mother's little girl. Whenever she was really depressed and needed a listening ear, she would, almost every time, go to my mother and drop the emotional bomb on her.
Well, what I'm trying to say that my elder sister has come a long way, she's confident of the way she is and she's has no need to prove a point to her friends and family of who she is.
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